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Russell and Erika and I went to an amazing gourmet appetizer party at A&A's last night. So much amazing exquisite food. We got home around midnight and I checked my mail to see if I had heard back from Don. I don't know if I did or not. The first piece of email I saw reported the passing of my friend Beki. Ochone, ochone, one of the dear wise ones is gone.

I have so many memories. Of her smile, her wisdom, her passion for life and for growing things. She was an amazing woman, mother and priestess. I liked and admired her very much. She will be missed her husband and children and by a very wide community. By several very wide communities because she touched so many lives in so many different spheres.

My mind, usually so unwilling to give up memories, went to a poem she had sent me a few years ago when she was getting some compost from the bottom of a hill near a local cemetary to put in her extensive garden.

A letter to Maman Brigitte

Maman Brigitte, Cemetaire Maman!
Merci, merci, beaucoups!
The Dead feed the living
The Dead do nourish us all,
And your gift will feed me,
and my family,
and my community.

The Dead feed the living:
Maman, watch over my Dead
and give them Peace.
I will watch over my Dead,
and give you Praise,
and feed them, by your Grace!
Chere Maman,
Ache, Brigitte!
Merci, merci beaucoups!

Rebekah Filipello, June 2006

She is now one of the Beloved Dead and her life and memory will feed the living. But, ochone, it is a meager meal compared to the delight of her living company. I will miss you, my friend.

Date: 2009-09-12 02:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] xiphias.livejournal.com
May you be comforted among those who mourn.

Date: 2009-09-12 04:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rowanf.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2009-09-12 03:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eve-prime.livejournal.com
Beki was my best friend when I was in my early 20s. I'm sharing this short story of hers with my FB friends today: The Barley Mother.

Date: 2009-09-12 04:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rowanf.livejournal.com
Thank you for reminding me of that story. (hosted by me even LOL) Beki was such an amazing woman.

Date: 2009-09-12 05:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eve-prime.livejournal.com
She was! I hadn't realized you were hosting it, but of course that's you. I hope you'll keep it there for a long time.

Date: 2009-09-12 03:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] herbmcsidhe.livejournal.com
I hadn't seen that email until now. While I didn't know her well, she was certainly part of my Craft family, and she will be remembered.

Date: 2009-09-12 04:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rowanf.livejournal.com
Thank you. What is remembered, lives... as we sing at Samhain. And she will be well remembered.

Date: 2009-09-12 06:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malterre.livejournal.com
I;m sorry you lost a friend and a role model :(

Date: 2009-09-13 05:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rowanf.livejournal.com
Thank you so much.

Date: 2009-09-12 06:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] memyslfni.livejournal.com
She was a bright spirit and my heart, along with yours, is heavy.
Hugs!

Date: 2009-09-13 05:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rowanf.livejournal.com
*hugs back* It is a sad time.

Date: 2009-09-12 11:03 pm (UTC)
crunchywitch: (Remember)
From: [personal profile] crunchywitch
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Date: 2009-09-13 05:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rowanf.livejournal.com
Thank you very much.

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