Nod. One other thing that I think is worthy of mention is that sex talk is never really as much fun to read or write as it was to do.

I don't mind reading about sex, and I kinda-like it on several levels... "my friend is happy", "my friend trusts me enough to share this with me", "wow, that's how I feel/kinda like how I feel/not what I feel/etc."

But I have to admit that even if I broke through feelings of propriety, and was willing to share what had happened, I'd kind of wonder who really cares that on X-night, I spun a really hot fantasy verbally while making love to my partner, so that both my words and my physical actions were combining in a crazy melding of pleasure? I'm not going to go much further than that, and even reading it sounds as much like boasting as sharing interesting news.